SEL Coaching und Consulting Stefanie Erna LenzenSovereign – Earnest – Lively

Find clarity.
Release inner blocks.
Develop new perspectives.

Psychological counselling, health coaching and business consulting – personal, respectful, and as equals.

Book your free introductory call 20 minutes, no obligation.

“Courage starts with showing up and letting ourselves be seen.”

Brené Brown, Daring Greatly (2012)

Does this sound familiar?

For a while now you’ve been thinking about being more independent, taking a new path, perhaps you want to start your own (online) business. And then the fear comes, the uncertainty. How am I supposed to make my idea happen? What if I fail? What will the people around me say? How do I approach potential clients, or even find them in the first place?

I believe in you, and you can too. You’ll find strength and self-confidence within you and let them grow — a real flourishing. Your SELF will blossom. I’ll be beside you while you find your unique path and walk it.

I’ll show you your possibilities. Use them!

What I bring to our work
  • 21 years in the medical field: state-registered nurse, practice management, Diplom-Gesundheitsökonomin (FH) — a German degree in health economics, clinical representative in medical device sales, psychological counsellor and personal coach.
  • 16 years in the technical industrial sector (B2B): founding, building and running companies, including internationally (Cyprus, Bulgaria, the UK, Dubai), building and implementing quality management systems for process optimisation, heading sales — winning clients, looking after them, marketing strategy and contract negotiation.

What I offer

Psychological Counselling – Personal Coaching

One-to-one support with private and professional challenges.

With methods chosen to suit you, you come to more strength and self-confidence. You recognise both your challenges and your resources, and you get a clear picture of how to reach your goals. Together we look at where you stand today, develop new perspectives, and work out strategies that fit your path.

Health Coaching

Preventive health and building your own health literacy.

This is mainly about how a health-conscious way of treating yourself brings your stress down and builds your mental strengths. With my years of experience in healthcare I support you, for example, in

  • handling the strain of everyday life,
  • putting a healthy lifestyle and prevention into practice,
  • getting exercise, sleep and stress management going – and much more.

What I offer is no substitute for medical or psychotherapeutic treatment.

Start-up and Process Consulting

Years of experience from two important sectors: health and industry.

My experience is your gain. As a former business owner, successful in sales and a quality management officer, I know what matters when you want to start a company, build it and run it. If you like, we also look at what makes sales work and how you go about it. I go through the individual steps of the process with you and hand you strategies you can put to use.

I offer my services primarily online, and by individual arrangement one to one in person.

Who it’s for

You’re in the right place if …

  • you’re ready to go deep into your own development and work on yourself, rather than scratch the surface.
  • you’re looking for one-to-one support shaped around you.
  • you want lasting change and you’re open to new approaches,
  • you’re open and curious about what’s new,
  • and also if there are times in your life when you feel uncertain or without direction, and you want to find a way to more courage and self-confidence — and live it.

How it works

  1. Get in touch

    Write to me with no obligation and arrange your introductory call.

  2. The introductory call

    In a free 20-minute call I’d like to hear more about you and what brings you here. What are your goals? What are you hoping for? We work those questions out together.

  3. Your first session

    If it feels right between us, we take the next step and arrange your first coaching session. There you get your first coaching, and we settle what working together can look like in practice – in a way that matches what you expect and what your budget allows. That can be one or two sessions, or support over a longer period.

  4. You, changed for the better

    With my help you gain a new, lighter feeling about life and a more positive way of meeting whatever comes next.

About me

Walking alongside people through particular phases of their lives is more than a job to me.

I am convinced that every person has the ability to overcome challenges and find new paths – sometimes all it takes is the right support to make these resources visible again.

My work rests on appreciation, trust, discretion, and a respectful relationship as equals.

Here you’ll find my wealth of experience
  • 21 years in the medical field: state-registered nurse, practice management, Diplom-Gesundheitsökonomin (FH) — a German degree in health economics, clinical representative in medical device sales, psychological counsellor and personal coach.
  • 16 years in the technical industrial sector (B2B): founding, building and running companies, including internationally (Cyprus, Bulgaria, the UK, Dubai), building and implementing quality management systems for process optimisation, heading sales — winning clients, looking after them, marketing strategy and contract negotiation.
Stefanie Erna Lenzen, psychological counsellor and personal coach

Voices of people I’ve walked alongside

“I did a resilience coaching with Stefanie and was taken straight away by her calm, sensitive manner. She guided me through every step with real assurance. I’m amazed how quickly she worked out with me the things that were blocking me, and how her well-judged questions brought me to my goal. Her methods were professional and very effective. The coaching went on working in a very positive way long afterwards, and after the very first session I was already taking my first steps towards more resilience. THANK YOU”

Martina translated from German

“I had my coaching with Stefanie online. At first I was sceptical whether that could work at all, but I have to say: the coaching in this format, Stefanie’s expertise and her empathy were really great. I got such valuable input, and blocks were released. Thank you for that.”

Daniela translated from German

“I did the health coaching together with Stefanie. From the very start I felt in really good hands. She motivated me and gave me strength. I learnt a great deal about preventive health and about how I can put things into practice for myself. Thank you so much, dear Stefanie.”

Silvija translated from German

FAQ

Where and how does hypno-coaching come in – and what is it, exactly?

Your concern is placed at the centre and “handed over” at your imaginary place. In a gentle trance, in which your own will stays with you throughout, you find release from uncertainty, pressure to perform, or other things weighing on you. In agreement with you it can be used, for instance, to strengthen self-confidence and self-efficacy, to work on fears and inner blocks, to support processes of change, or – in the sense of health coaching – to bring stress down and encourage relaxation. What stands at the centre is the activating of your own resources. Hypno-coaching is NOT there to treat psychological or psychosomatic illness – for that, please turn to a psychotherapist or to your doctor.

Are there particular methods used in psychological counselling or in coaching?

Yes. As a trained professional coach I use methods chosen to suit you. Depending on your concern, those are methods for defining goals, methods that take your vision into view, or methods that help you strengthen your self-worth and your self-confidence. There are of course more than these. What matters to me is that everything is agreed with you beforehand and that you can say “no” to any approach at any time. You as the client set your path, and your needs lead the way!

How is coaching different from counselling?

In coaching you set the path and I walk it beside you. In counselling I give you concrete tips and courses of action. Here my knowledge and my expertise, out of decades of experience, are the foundation your growth stands on.

How many sessions will I need?

That depends on your concern and on your goals. Often the first very positive changes show after only a few sessions.

Is online coaching possible as well?

Yes, many coaching topics can be worked on successfully online.

What does your coaching cost?

After our introductory call I’ll gladly put together an offer made for you.

Your first step

Every person is unique. So what stands at the centre of my work is your own situation, not a fixed concept.

In a free 20-minute introductory call, with no obligation, we get to know each other and look together at where you are right now. We settle how I can best support you.

Ready for the next step? If you want to change something in your life for the better, or you’re in a demanding situation right now, I look forward to meeting you.

Get in touch, no obligation

Stefanie Lenzen standing in the garden in the evening, meadows and hills behind her in the evening light